As Lightworkers with a degree of conscious awareness, many of us feel confused or troubled viewing behavior or situations that we encounter in the family/friend environment. Having a tremendous amount of personal experience with this specific issue, I hope to offer some tips or guidelines that may bring some comfort. It is not easy watching loved ones suffer or make destructive choices which you can see are going to yield an excruciating or painful result. Every person must live through their life experiences in order to arrive at the conclusion that the relationship to their inner self is the most important relationship. This means that on the external view, we need to be careful to not interfere or get in the way of the person’s growth lesson. This can also boomerang back towards us in a superimposition field, and that is not our role to take on other people’s responsibilities or get siphoned dry by vampiric behavior. At the same time we also comprehend these larger patterns of manipulation, mind control and lack of free will (as example with severe addiction cases caused by entity possession) at work on this planet. In our heart we desire to help and heal people whenever we are capable and when we are aligned to the highest mutual expression of all parties involved. Sounds simple in theory, however, in daily practice we all know it is not easy!
The single most important component of being effective in healing these types of relationships and their situations is NON ATTACHMENT. This can sound like quite the conundrum, as it may be construed that if you are non-attached it means you do not care or do not take action. This is not accurate! The practice of compassionate witnessing and getting skilled at non judgment, correcting your thoughts, is helpful and necessary if you are going to be effective at healing and transforming situations. You are learning to be a “Chalice of God Source”, a pure light vessel so that healing consciousness can flow through your heart and to the person totally indiscriminately. This is similar to dispensing grace or a blessing.
As you accept this role of responsibility to heal your own body, you begin the exploration of asking that internal question, Who AM I really? As you dedicate daily practice to your healing and spiritual ascension, you begin a massive amount of personal healing and clearing that extends to your entire Bio-Family, genetic line, blood line, collective human race memory, Planetary memory, Solar memory, Galactic Memory and Universal Memory. So it is important to know as you heal your flesh and your various spirit bodies, you also heal your bio-family and it keeps unraveling through the various octaves of your multidimensional selves. Healing your inner polarity and unifying your form with spirit heals the entire Universe. That is why all healing starts inside yourself! Healing yourself is a MASSIVE service and contribution to humanity, the planet, and extends all the way to our Universe!
In the beginning stages of Spiritual Awakening, the Tests of Personal Mastery and Attention of directing your Consciousness:
1. Ask and Inquire on the Way of your Soul and its purposes
2. Listen, learn the language of Soul and take action on the guidance of your Soul
3. Develop your Inner Connection to Soul that supercede all reliance on the External Connections or perceptions of reality.
4. Life a Life congruent to your Soul and is purposes, and that it serves as an example to others.
ES Suggestions For Individual Clearing:
Perfect the ES Core Technique Practice : 12 D Shield, Core Fear Removal, Resolve Ego Authority Issue, Daily Practice of Clearing Negative Ego Tools, Learn to Compassionate Witness, Learn how to Set Personal Space (12 D at home, office, for family members), Learn as much as you can about Spiritual Ascension as your Spirit Guides you. On the Ascension pathway, you are always interchangeable between the Teacher and Student archetypes, with the most Supreme Teacher being Your Inner Spirit.
In the earlier stages of Ascension awareness, in order to help your biological or extended family, heal yourself and cultivate your compassionate communication and authenticity in their presence. Do not revert to old programs to please their ego. No person benefits when lies are being told or represented, ever. Get clear on the “big burrito” theme of fear or pain you inherited from your family and get on it. Clear it out! You are an eternal being, there is nothing to fear.
(August 2012 Newsletter)